Man I crack myself up!! I have been infected...at least my blog has. Just an fyi, trolls are actually Cyber bullies who are mean and insulting to people they don't agree with. In my case, it's parents against the social welfare system, at least the foster care system. I seriously doubt they are against food stamps, assisted housing, or child care subsidies. But anyway, they have left some ignorant comments to my post, feel free to check them out. It's amusing to me that I can bring out such meanness. What's so disturbing is the level of cyber-bullying that these 'adults' engage in. Don't we tell our children not to behave in such a manner?? Shame shame for the bad example you trollies you! They call themselves trolls, then they share their bullying ways with the other trollies in their yahoo groups. It's kinda scary how violent they act. One even wants to know how old my boys are! Creepy!!
So anyway, I really would love to see the birth parents viewpoint. I am open mined, educated, and compassionate. But in everyday life, respect is earned by being respectful. If you disagree with me that is fine. But personal insults, and judgemental accusation just makes you trollies look well, um, what's the word....stupid.
To all my fellow foster parents. You understand me, thank you!!
PS: There is a law against cyber bullying, just ask a teenager.
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Don't let it get to you! We've got your back! =)
The "trolls" you speak of have been horribly, horribly hurt by the child services system. You don't seem to understand that. We KNOW how corrupt this system is. You don't understand that either.
My 2 grandkids were KIDNAPPED from a good Dad and placed with a drug addicted foster woman who had my grandson on every drug she could get her hands on. It took us 12 years to get them back and now we have to deal with the drugs' dangerous side effects. The insane foster woman took a healthy little boy and almost destroyed him. Who knows what long-lasting problems he'll have to deal with. And you want me to not be mad???
You really need an education on the truth of child services!
I left a comment that was respectful to you and was informative, yet I still do not see it here. You do not want comments that disagree with your views, as you stated in your blog. "I really would love to see the birth parents viewpoint. I am open mined, educated, and compassionate. But in everyday life, respect is earned by being respectful." You apparently only want the ones that agree with you, because even when the comments are respectful and informative, you still deleted...it was as follows,"To comment on a blog your opinion is not cyberbullying. ..it is a comment and opinion and by having this little comment box on here, you ask for the opinion of your readers. If you cannot handle those opinions you should not have a blog that asks for comments.
As for the "trolls", these are bio-parents who know for a fact how corrupt CPS is, they know first hand that CPS kidnaps children, they know for a fact that children are safer in their own homes then they are in foster care, that more children are abused, neglected and killed in CPS custody then they are in their own homes.
Many foster parents end up being able to adopt these children, not because they are truly abused, but because CPS wants the money from not only the state and federal government for foster care funding, but the bonuses for adopting these children out. It is a very corrupt and lucrative business, I say business because hey are more concerned with money, then they are with the children they are supposed to protect.
For actual information on the Corrupt Business of Child Protective Services, google Former Georgia Senator Nancy Schafer, or Washington Senator Pam Roach.
What these bios say is happening is true, do you condone the stealing of America's children by a government agency, just so a foster parent can adopt? Is it okay to market children for adoption to receive adoption bonuses? Is it okay to only remove marketable children and leave the non-marketable children, "abused child" in their homes to die? How would you feel if CPS began investigating you and removed your children on false reports, then gave them up for adoption?
Cont. below....
You are not the "momma" of this child, you are a foster giver, a temporary placement until the mother and/or father meet CPS's standard...( something that rarely happens) Your position is temporary in nature, you are not afforded the same rights under the Constitution as biological parents, nor should you be.
You should not get too attached to the children in your care and start pushing for adoption! It is not right for you to do so. You can love the child all you want, but they should not call you momma, they should not be lead to believe that you are momma or any of the other things I hear you stating in this blog.
Being poor and a victim of DV, does not mean that you are a bad parent, it means that you are poor and some asshole thinks it is okay to control and beat you. These are not easy situations to be in and a woman is more likely to be killed when she leaves, then she is if she stays. In many DV cases the abuser, still gets visitation or even custody of the children through manipulation and lies...would you rather be in the home where you can protect your children...or send them off to the abusers house every weekend.
If you have never been in a situation then you cannot make an adequate judgment of that situation.
And to remove a child just because the parents are poor is not supposed to be allowed in the state that I live in, nor is an abuse finding against the victim of DV, and states right in the manual that these are not appropriate. ..yet they do it anyway.
If you are going to be a foster parent, then be a good one. Part of being a foster parent is knowing that this is not your child.
You should also realize if you do the slightest thing to piss CPS off, say speak out because you see them doing something unethical or wrong, you will end up like many other fosters before you, unlicensed, childless, and under investigation.
I suggest that you do some research into the real CPS system, not the propaganda that you have been fed...If you do, you will discover a world that will really piss you off. And it might save you from having your own children illegally removed if they ever feel you have crossed the line and questioned their power...."
I understand where you are coming from.. the trolls harassed me for a while as well.. You are doing a great thing being a foster parent.. these trolls need to work on fixing the system they say is broken instead of harassing good heart ed people just trying to help children.
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